Infertile And Need Words Of Encouragement

Filed under: General — tobefertile at 10:28 pm on Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Not being able to have a child of your own is not an easy thing to deal with. You might have gone for counseling at some point and thought you were comfortable with it. Then come those occasions where everyone turns up with their children and somehow you seem to stand out from the crowd and it begins to trouble you again.

You will be able to find some really inspirational messages relating to your situation from any of these: inspirational words words of encouragement quotes scriptures for encouragement

The first thing that I will say to you is that in every condition there is always hope but to find hope you must first accept the fact you are facing , that you might not be able to have children of your own . You should be able to get to a point where you can talk about it openly and without fear, after all it wasn’t a choice that you made to be infertile was it. There is still a chance at being happy just don’t use having children as a way of defining your happiness.

Probably you might have gotten to a point where you were able to accept it but your spouse has never really gotten used to the idea that he cant have children with you and that’s what’s probably troubling you the most. The situation calls for understanding from both parties and you should be willing to see each other’s points of view.

having gone through the same experience myself I know there is no easy answer or solution to the problem. It calls for patience and understanding by both you and your spouse. If you are ever going to talk about this subject try avoiding the house set up or environment. Try somewhere where the both of you will be able to relax and feel at ease.

you can access sites that offer words of encouragement and possibly link you with other people in a similat situation. They have helped me cope with my own situation and I’m sure they will work for you too.

 

What’s A Girl To Do For Low Arousal?

Filed under: General — tobefertile at 9:17 pm on Monday, December 21, 2009

Currently there is no prescription product on the market to help women who suffer from a low libido, hard to believe in sthis exually charged world.While men have alternatives including Viagra, Cialis, Levitra and new options are being developed.How is a woman to resist her low libido?First it may be beneficial to understand the underlying symptoms as well as treatment alternatives.  Let’s break it down:

 

  • Leading causes of low libido
    • Hormonal
    • Psychological
    • Relationships
    • Diet

 

 

  • Treatment Options
    • Hormone therapies
    • Lifestyle changes
    • Relationship changes

 

 

According to a 1999 study published in the Journal of the American Medical Association 43 percent of all women report some sexual dysfunction ranging from lack of orgasm or no desire for sex at all.While many studies have examined the effects of testosterone — a hormone that rules sex drive in both men and women – on women’s libido, it has not proved to have all the answers.The reason being that with men sexual dysfunction is directly tied to erection, while for women a lack of sexual desire is far more complicated and entwined with many different aspects of her life.

 

The bottom line is – there is good news for women.Libido and arousal can ultimately be restored.Since the reasons for low libido may be numerous let’s examine the foundation.

 

 

There are a number of steps a woman can take to help restore her sex drive.While all natural supplements are available to be had in helping the process along she should be open to a taking a number of steps to contribute to re-establishing her libido.

 

Restoring libido – try these options:

 

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    • Hormone therapies
      • Adjust medication choices and dosages.Have a conversation with your medical doctor regarding any prescription drugs and review which options are best for you.
      • Hormone therapies including estrogen and testosterone replacement therapies may help facilitate with vaginal dryness and can increase blood flow to the vagina to help improve desire. Testosterone therapy is another consideration for postmenopausal women who are currently taking estrogen yet have a decreased sex drive with no other identifiable causes.

 

 

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    • Lifestyle changes
      • Exercise more – get those endorphins going
        • Strengthening the pelvic muscles will also enhance your sexual experience
      • Reduce stress – find better ways to cope and take the edge off
      • Add joy and happiness – discover little ways to add enjoyment to your day

 

 

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    • Relationship changes
      • Build intimacy – do things together, alone without kids or other guests
      • Be open about what arouses you
      • Share chores so you are not overwhelmed
      • Take steps to make you “feel” more sexy
      • Seek counseling if necessary
      • Spice up your sex life with new locations, positions, different times during the day or night
      • Make time for intimacy – have a date night!

 

 

Lastly, add an aphrodisiac.There are many all natural products available on the market designed with ingredients that have long histories with increasing sexual desire.  Labidoral is a combination of Tribulus Terrestris, Panax Ginseng, Catuaba and a proprietary blend to help promote a woman’s sexual desire, enhance orgasms and enhance natural lubrication.

 

* Tribulus Terrestris is a plant known as a natural testosterone enhancer

* Panax Ginseng  stimulates both physical and mental activity, and has a positive effect on the sex glands

* Catuaba Bark Extract has a long history in herbal medicine as an aphrodisiac, indigenous Indians in Brazil have used it for generations

Labidorol’s ingredients are of superior quality and extraction process of the herbs when compared to other female sex enhancers on the market. Labidorol is promoted to increase your sexual performance safely, immediately and effectively.

 

 

 

Truth About The Myths and Facts Of How You Can Get Pregnant

Filed under: General — tobefertile at 7:35 pm on Friday, December 18, 2009

There are a variety of myths about sex and pregnancy, from misconceptions about sexual positions to what actually kills sperm. Many people think that even without a condom, there are ways they can avoid becoming pregnant, or that they might become pregnant without even having sex; some of these ideas are true, some partially so, and others totally false. Keep reading if you want to get the real information on these concerns.Always check with your Dr if you have symptoms of pregnancy or pregnancy questions.

Common concerns

What if I’m on my period?It is possible to become pregnant; within the vagina, sperm can live as many as seven days, especially if there is fertile cervial fluid present.

What if I didn’t orgasm?While the increased blood flow and lubrication associated with orgasm might make you think it can increase your fertility, it is only a physical response to stimulation – sperm can still travel through the vagina without one.There is no relationship between orgasm and ovulation; if one did cause the other, then you couldn’t even have your period without having an orgasm first. You had better always call in your medical supplier whenever you have weight gain during pregnancy.

What if we did it with me on top? Gravity has nothing to do with sperm being able to travel through the vagina and reach your fertile egg.Even if the woman is on top, as long as the male ejaculates within or near the vagina, pregnancy can occur.

Does being a virgin matter?It is irrelevant if it was your first time – even if your hymen was intact – it is still possible to become pregnant.As long as there is a fertile egg and sperm can gain access to it – you can get pregnant.

And if the sperm was exposed to air?Sperm is not killed by simple exposure to air; what sperm require is to be kept moist.Sperm can survive as long as it is moist, even if it is not inside the body, as what kills the sperm cells is not air in and of itself; rather, it is becoming dry.

What if there is sperm in the pool or hot tub?The possibility of ejaculate being present in a pool or hot tub is a concern for some women trying to avoid pregnancy.Here, there is no reason for you to worry, as the chlorine in a pool and the temperature of a hot tub will immediately kill any sperm cells.

What if we have sex in a hot tub, pool, shower, etc.? YES.Being in water is not relevant here – if you have penetration, the sperm can easily reach the egg, just the same as having intercourse outside the water.

How can I avoid becoming pregnant?

If you are trying not to get pregnant, keep in mind this guideline: no sexual activity that leads to ejaculate coming into contact with the woman’s body, from the bellybutton to the thighs.You must remember that, whether inside or outside the vagina, sperm can still survive for several days.

Probably the simplest and best thing you can do, if you want to both be free of worry about becoming pregnant AND enjoy a varied, full sexual experience, is to use protection (condoms) and/or another form of birth control.

Always contact you MD for any medical advise this is for entertainment only!